know when to give up

i am the queen of trying to do it all myself and have been working on getting over that. i have appointed others to take care of various aspects of my life, which is like pulling teeth, but i have found people. so, what i need is a clone of myself because i want reliability, accuracy and neatness, which i cannot seem to get. i have a whirlwind going on every day in my personal and business life and have yet to find the time to call it to a halt. i am frustrated and have decided that i can't make things happen and that is just how it is. so, i am going to get more direct, less nice and kick some ass cause i throw in the towel on trying to get anyone else to do things. on a better note, i am running again and am happy about that.