Thursday, March 12, 2009

another day gone.

so i have been really stressed out lately with my new court date of today coming up. terry was trying to attach to my bank account, and i had to go produce paperwork and whatnot this afternoon. i had referrals this morning (had a board meeting tuesday morning) have lots of membership business to attend to ((i am the membership chairperson)) and i have not had time to prepare since i have been trying to get work done here and get paperwork together for court today. i also had several jobs due out and orders to make today, which i did sucessfully, and then a parent/teacher conference with ians teachers (all 6 of them and it feels like a court trial every time) at 1:40 followed by court at 3:00 with my arch enemy. the day just kept elevating with obsticals all of which i jumped and cleared with no deductions, but my stomach suffered immensley. the conference with ians teachers was interesting, because all of them understand the issue, but none of them wanted to address it. ian has been getting physcially assaulted in class most of this quarter by a kid who is now expelled because of his abuse, and his grades have gone down to b's and 2 c's because he has not turned in some of his work (which he has done and left at home). he has been more concerned about whether or not he will get hit at school or made fun of rather than his work since that comes easily for him. the teachers were not expecting me to call them on what goes on in their classrooms. ian tells me everything, including what he has done. anyway, the conference went very well and i think the teachers will be a little more observant of their classrooms and then court, well, that is a twelve page story, but it ends with the judge walking out and saying to terry "the court will not be a part of this". she cannot attach to my bank account and will have to figure out how to do anything now without the help of the court. she finally showed her true colors, and i can drink without worry for the first time in months.

3 comments:

Jovi said...

oh boy beck, what a day! i'm glad it went well for you and i really hope things improve for ian at school. that blows.

Anonymous said...

Hell the heck yeah, woman. Thank goodness the judge had some good sense. What a waste of time!

And you go, girl - being a good mom and asking the teachers to not beat around the bush. Address issues. That's what we like! I hope Ian can feel safer at school and get back to enjoying learning again.

BirdEtt said...

Give Ian all my love.
I'm glad the Terry thing is over. It seemed so ridiculous so it's nice that the officials finally recognized that and you can rest now.